Exhibitionism for the novice

Displaying your partners body, or getting her to do it can be a very potent and arousing activity. Normally, we spend a lot of time clothed, and letting someone else see your partner is exciting, dangerous and very erotic. She may well be very unkeen on the idea, so it is best to approach this in slow stages; it make take several years to progress from one stage to another. However, you're not involved in a race with anyone else, so don't feel that you've got to end up getting your partner to walk naked down Oxford Street! Taking it slowly allows you both to discuss it, and decide to stop at a point at which you both feel comfortable. So although I'm talking about a series of stages, do whatever you feel happy with; I'm not advocating what you have to do, merely some of the things you can do.

I guess the first stage is to wear normal everyday clothes, but without underwear. If your partner is particularly busty it may be uncomfortable for her to go without a bra, which means she's going to want to stop as soon as possible, so you need to be sensitive to how she feels about this. However, if it is practical, get her to go out wearing, as I say, her normal clothes. If she wears a shirt or blouse with buttons, or a short skirt, so much the better. Encourage her to not to button up all the way; in fact to wear the blouse with one more button undone than usual. You should be able to get a nice view when she leans over, and you should both get a thrill out of the fact that you can see rather more of her than you'd expect to in a public situation!

Choose your location carefully, since one of the exciting things is that someone might, just might see a little more than they would do normally. A restaurant is always a good idea; make sure you drop something onto the floor so you have to lean down and pick it up, giving you the opportunity to look up her skirt for example. Alternatively, go somewhere rather quieter and get her to perhaps undo all the buttons on her shirt. That way if someone happens along, its still going to be possible for her to cover up quickly, and its unlikely that anyone will notice anything. Its very interesting in the UK… people see what they expect to see, and although people probably wouldn't notice her desperate attempts to hold her shirt together, you don't know for certain, and neither does she.

Some other ideas at this stage in order to get more comfortable with flashing in an environment in which she still has a lot of control over the situation:
A clothing store. Get her to change into something else in a cubical, but leave the curtain just slightly open, so that if someone is at the right angle, they might be able to see into it, and at her. There are lots of levels of daringness here; the extent to which the curtain is left open, if she's wearing underwear, and indeed what she is changing into.
Sunbathing. Lying on her front with the strap of her bikini undone. She can then sit up, either a little or a lot, depending on who is around and how brave she feels.
In a train carriage. Once people get settled in their seats they don't often move around. Choose a quiet time of the day, and wait until the train has moved off. Then she can undo her top, or pull up her skirt for you to see. Of course, you can vary this depending on the time of day, so that it is busier, or with the number of people around you.
In the car. Have a look next time you're driving along; its actually quite difficult to see what passengers in other cars are wearing. Unless you're a lorry driver, of course. Start off slow, perhaps without jeans/skirt and get braver by not wearing a top. Braver still with feet on the dashboard while using a vibrator. Even braver is to do that while stuck in a traffic jam with a lorry on the passenger side.

I've labelled all of these as 'novice', with some twists in there. I'm sure you can think of twists on them, and there's plenty of others you could do as well. However, really they're not 'novice' - if that's all you want to do, that's fine. There is no race, no 'one true way', just go with what you feel happy doing.